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The Calmer Mom Blog
A Blog Supporting Sensitive or Neurodivergent People Throughout Fertility, Pregnancy & Postpartum


“Functional (Autistic) Burnout” during pregnancy... Thank you, Taylor Heaton.
I just discovered the phrase "Functional Burnout" in autism coach Taylor’s video that perfectly describes my lived experience as a late-diagnosed mom and business woman. Learning it sooner would have helped me during my own autistic burnout during pregnancy. I wish I’d had this information 17 years ago while I was pregnant with my first daughter. At 37, completely unaware of being AuDHD, I was so at home with chronic exhaustion that I didn’t register pregnancy as much differe

Michelle Noble
Aug 212 min read


Horse First, Then Cart… prioritizing nervous system regulation during pregnancy
What do you do when it’s all too much? Maybe it’s “morning sickness”...all day. Maybe your hips ache and you slept poorly. Too hot, too cold, never just right. Those days where everything is too this and too that and never just right. Yep. Being neurodivergent or highly-sensitive and pregnant is a lot. You feel like you should keep going, have to keep going. Well maybe you can, but are you getting the “order of operations” flipped? You’ve heard the saying, “Getting the cart b

Michelle Noble
Aug 101 min read


Change the Story, Mama, and You Can Change Anything! (including relieving postpartum stress)
Everybody has a story. It's how we understand each other, ourselves, and the world. But when we get stuck in our stories we stop seeing what else might be true...and where possibilities lay that can lead to more ease, more confidence and self-trust, and actually having joy in this wild ride called parenting. When I was pregnant with my older daughter I had a story... In the story, I cradled her in my arms and she cooed softly as I rocked her to sleep. It was a story of tranqu

Michelle Noble
Jul 13 min read


Pregnancy Anxiety? An Inspiring Response...
Pregnancy anxiety can feel overwhelming, especially when you're already a highly sensitive or Neurodivergent person. It's like the volume on everything is set on high. It's not just okay to ask for support - it's a gift your giving your new baby. One of the things I loved about a recent consultation was seeing a mom-to-be recognize that support isn't just for her - it's an investment in her baby's future and the well-being of her entire family. Learning nervous system regulat

Michelle Noble
Jun 141 min read


Is it Your Job to Protect Your Baby, during Pregnancy and Beyond? (Letting go of fear and pregnancy anxiety)
Many pregnant people feel enormous pressure to make the "right" choices. In this video, I explore a different question: What if your role isn't to protect your baby from every possible risk, but to respond with care to what you and your baby need? A Stress-filled Message... If you're pregnant, you've probably absorbed a powerful message from our culture: Your job is to protect your baby. At first glance, that sounds obvious. Of course you want to keep your baby safe. Of cours

The Calmer Mom Project
Oct 7, 20213 min read


When Pregnancy Feels Heavy: Try This for More Ease - In Under A Minute! (Relieving Pregnancy Stress)
Need a quick way to give yourself some space or change up the energy? Give this a try - what have you got to lose (except stress)?

The Calmer Mom Project
Oct 1, 20213 min read
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